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Thanks, Mom

5/11/2014

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She's been gone almost thirty years. She never got to know some of her grandchildren or any of her great-grandchildren. She missed one of her grandsons playing in the state basketball tournament, a great-grandson running in the Drake Relays, and knowing several sons and daughters-in-law. She never got to retire and relax for a whole holiday without worrying about getting back to "the store" to start the post holiday sale.

She ended her life in a town where she knew very few people other than family and was only known as my mother, rather than in the town she had spent most of her life, as Eleanor Musser, successful businesswoman and church and community leader. She did not live as long as I have.

But she raised six children almost single-handedly. She worked two jobs to get off welfare. No matter how much she worked outside the home, her house was immaculate and her meals were excellent and cooked from scratch. She made my junior prom dress from a remnant my grandmother had picked up and put the zipper in by hand. In an age of scratchy tulle formals, that dress was comfortable and unique; it went to college with me and was borrowed by several friends for fraternity formals.

She wanted to be a nurse when she grew up and although she was salutatorian of her class, it was the middle of the depression and she never got the chance. She was strict and demanding of her children but thought the sun rose and set with her grandchildren. She called me once giggling because 'two college boys had taken her out for lunch.' Our oldest son and a friend had driven up from Cedar Falls, and although they 'took her out,' I'm sure she picked up the bill.

She was a fan of both Iowa and Iowa State sports. Her cinnamon rolls and angel food cake were not to be believed.  She never gave up. Thanks, Mom.
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Pat Kordick
5/11/2014 03:10:39 am

What a wonderful tribute!!

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Gretchen Musser
5/11/2014 03:19:25 am

A perfect tribute. The only gift she ever wanted was for us kids "to just get along".....six of us. Never really happened. But, I think we tried. Thanks Karen for this beautiful tribute....no wonder you're the oldest ;)

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A Chris
1/2/2015 03:42:30 am

As time went by, I poked fun at some of the things Mom said and did....but gradually have realized the tremendous impact a family has with dedicated mom. Lovely tribute to your mom, Karen, and she would appreciate you proudly!

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Katie Thrasher
1/3/2015 12:14:10 pm

Beautiful.

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